Dear Ms. Sandberg and Ms. Stalinsky,
I am an American Muslim convert, and I regard Hamas to be a disgrace to Islam. At the same time, it is no mystery why Hamas came to be, given the unjust order Israel has imposed on the Palestinians over several decades by virtue of its military preponderance. Such power does not balance or restrain itself; hence, Hamas.
I condemn all terrorist acts committed on October 7 by members of Hamas and other Palestinian groups, as well as Israel’s disproportionate military response over the seven months since. As you know, the majority of the 35,000 victims of Prime Minister Netanyahu’s “mighty vengeance” have been women and children.
I watched your documentary, “Screams Before Silence” (https://www.screamsbeforesilence.com/) three times through, and while the testimonies are riveting and I have to presume much if not most of the content is credible (despite what some informed critics have alleged), I do find parts of the film problematic as I specify below.* As to whether sexual violence rose to the level of “systematic”, as you hope the viewer will conclude, I am not competent to judge.
It is unlikely that even a consensus by qualified human rights organizations will dispel the controversy surrounding the allegations. However, we must wait to see how close those organizations come in their final reports to such a consensus.
But just as it is relevant to pose the question whether sexual violence on October 7 was systematic, it certainly appears that a disregard for civilians and aid workers in Gaza by the Israeli government has been systematic. One might say the same of Hamas, but Israel has been dropping the bombs and imposing the siege.
I believe that Israel’s stated goal of eliminating Hamas, which will prove to be elusive and counterproductive, is a cover for what amounts to ethnic cleansing. The government would like nothing more than to rid Gaza of Palestinians to make way for Israeli settlements. If hostages are still enduring sexual violence, ending that is not a priority of the government, despite its exploiting the allegations of October 7.
In your May 6, 2024 interview by Shany Littman of Haaretz, Ms. Stalinsky, Littman asked if you are concerned that the film could be perceived as an attempt to justify the “continued Israeli attacks on Gaza”. You responded that you could not imagine how anyone could think that was your motivation.
You later said you thought the Israeli government is “sentencing us to doom”.
In light of these remarks, I urge you to undertake a documentary addressing the violence perpetrated against Gazans and West Bank Palestinians in the aftermath of October 7. For all the reasons you both state for producing “Screams Before Silence”, the stories of victims of this mighty vengeance must be told.
Just as you were troubled by what you perceived to be denialism of sexual violence by people outside of Israel, I am troubled by what seems to be denialism by many Israelis with respect to the war on Gaza especially. I was alarmed to hear recently that most Israelis oppose humanitarian aid to Gazans.
At the conclusion of your film, you, Ms. Sandberg, tell Ms. Stalinsky: “Anyone who watches this film can bear witness….And we can take that pain, and take that trauma and turn it into hope, turn it into commitment, turn it into conviction that we are not going to let this happen again.”
Indeed. And in the same vein we all must face what has been going on in Gaza everyday since October 7 in retribution for the horrors suffered by Israelis on that day. Israelis especially should know how their government’s war on Gaza has impacted innocent women, children, and men alike. No two people are better qualified for that task than you.
Sincerely,
Todd Buchanan
* We should be suspect of any taped confessions, because of what is not seen. What was the motivation for the alleged Hamas prisoners to “confess” to acts of sexual violence? The viewer cannot know. And at least one of the prisoners appears to have facial indications of physical abuse, i.e., a possible “black eye”.
In a couple of the interviews, you, Ms.Sandberg, seem to be “leading the witness” with your question about whether sexual violence on October 7 appeared to be systematic. It is clear that is the answer you want.
On this point, human behavior in highly-charged circumstances, including mass violence, cannot be explained simply in terms of the presumed intentions of the actors. We know that sexual violence is endemic in warfare. In other words, there may indeed have been patterns of sexual violence without it having been intentional by the Hamas leadership.
Some critics of the documentary have questioned the reliability of some of the witnesses, if not most of them, and assert that their accounts of witnessing sexual violence or its aftermath have changed over time. Critics assert that some of the alleged witnesses of sexual violence did not include such accounts in their initial public statements, though I would not infer from that, if true, that their accounts were invented afterward.